Hi Jules
I have just seen your post and so sorry hear about your nightmares .
Just some observations from my last year of racing with my 3.7 with gearbox in the place it came with and correct place - at the back . I think I did twelve races and no failures and the two years before that I had about four gearbox failures mostly crown and pinion and two clutch housing failures . So what changed to have zero failures ..
1) I changed the oil to redline 75w90NS
2) I moved the brakes to outboard
3) installed oil cooler
4) used MD design on clutch housing
5) kept all rubber in the prop with cages on front coupling only and aligned and braced engine
6) most import I had brilliant Gripper LS made with awesome ramp angles with a design that gripper uses that puts less shock into the box
7) definitely NO first gear pull offs and barely used second in anger . Even drove like this on one of our tight tracks and sacrificed 0.5 of a second for a whole season of no failures . Noted that only possible with huge 3.7 torque on my 10:41 box .

stayed off slicks and used 205:50:15
So in the above points the redline oil was critical even though my previous oils are EP and Gli4 or 5 with LS and and Synchro additives . Moving brakes outboard with cooler and side exit exhaust removes a lot of heat out the box this also reducing expansion and tolerances of the gear sets / pinion tolerances .
Most breakages I had was under hard second gear to third changes. But having the 3.7 I was so far ahead of the other guys I never worried about backing off a bit there .
When I sold car I put a mild 3.0 12v and the owner has raced it for past five years and box is still holding out other than replacing the Gripper clutches which comes in a pack of seven . My mates here in SA who race 3.7s with boxes in the back still break and bend shafts but they really do push them hard and that you can’t do .
That 3.7 which Glenwood built back then is in my front mount box car which I can totally abuse and drive like do*#% and not break anything so other words suits me fine !!
Now Jules one thing I did learn on the front mount box set up was the small 184mm Ap clutch twin plate definitely only like track use but I did not know then what my other options were . I have now a bigger 240mm M5 clutch with another flywheel and that whole set up is still under 10kg which is 5kg lighter than the standard GTV flywheel !
The shock waves on the ap clutch also created more wear on the sinntered plates rivets and affected gearbox bearings . All this is solved with my m5 spring organic clutch .
So where does is leave you ... go 3.7 with box in the back and keep it smooth and you will probably find you will be faster ..
If you do break a few boxes then go the route i have which is not massively expensive ...
oh my cams in my 3.7 are GTa 1 and Gta 2 ... you reckon yours are mild .. I think they are bit to wild ( maybe my imagination) and thinking of going less wild ...
Cheers
Kevin